Do you find yourself feeling like you just have to accept things the way they go because you can’t do anything about them? This is just one of the many manifestations of powerlessness. It’s a feeling nobody likes. However power is not about possessions, money, or a stellar career. Those are only external factors improving or worsening the true source of our power: our own sense of self.
If you’re dating over 40, dating over 50, or dating over 50, you have to stop feeling like you are powerless. Here are some ways how you can rise from the ashes and take control of your life:
Do not allow yourself to be powerless
Why are most people powerless? It’s because they allow it. They give their power away just to earn fame or acceptance from other people. Do not be that person. Go against the current and see how you can earn your place in society without just conforming to others’ ideals. You are equipped with every ability to succeed, always believe that.
Stop being a victim
You are a victim if you justify sufferings in your life and resign yourself to them because that’s what you think is good. And you know what, many people are willing to benefit to those who are content with just being victims. Always stand up for what you know is right – do not allow yourself to be victimized.
Develop your strengths
In the core of you, there is greatness. However, if you’re content with things as they are, your abilities will not be fully realized. Take control by improving your self-worth. Ask yourself, “What are the things that I am good at?” “How can I excel at this field?” It is no other person’s choice but yours to grow and mature in your talents. If you choose to do so, you are ultimately developing strengths where you can draw your power.
We can always take the easy way around – give in to powerlessness and live a life that is not vibrant. But you wouldn’t want that. If you want to enjoy success in your life and relationships, stop playing the victim and start being in charge of your own life now.