Dating after 40 or 50 is definitely different from dating in your teenage years. This is no time for some childish games – we want to find true love and make it last forever. However, it’s easier said than done. In today’s world, we see many relationships falling apart, lovers becoming estranged. Nobody wants that to happen. How, then, do you make your man love you forever? Read on to find out.
Don’t be too clingy and desperate
Yes, you love your man and you think about him all the time. But don’t call him every 30 minutes asking where he is. Don’t be too jealous of his friends. You won’t want to make your man wilt because of too much attention from you. Affections are good, but just like everything else, too much is dangerous.
Allow breathing space
You may be dating; but remember, you are still living different lives. A successful relationship thrives where there is some healthy breathing space between partners. Invest in quality time; but equally important, leave space for each other to grow. This way, you might enjoy your relationship better than you think.
Continue improving yourself
Each day is a chance to become more beautiful than ever. Remember that men are highly visual. Striving to look your best everyday will all the more keep your man interested in you. Explore new styles, maintain your attractiveness, smell good! Also, learn how to be confident in every situation.
Don’t make him a shock absorber
You may be stressed with your career and fed up with things coming up at work, but don’t always vent your negative emotions to your man. Yes, your partner is there for you; but if all you do is bombard him with negativity and stress, then he’s going to tire of that someday. Tip: when you’re having a bad day, sit down with your man and just ask for a hug.
Show him that he is needed
What is Superman’s masculinity if it doesn’t save the world? The same goes with your husband. In your intimate moments, in your everyday circumstances, he needs to feel like a man. The more you shower your partner with love and make him feel important, then, he is likely to do the same to you.